As much as feminism progressed in western society, men and women are mostly not on board with equality.

The idea that women and men are economically, politically and socially equal to men hasn't been around for more than 100 years so why are women surprised that men disappoint them? According to my friend Victoria, the older generations tolerated men a lot as a collective.

That has never been more true - some young men I meet who were coddled by parents growing up, can't stand it when their significant other can't muster up the same type of the wrong expression of love in his newly started family.

It's actually hilarious how disposable and useless some men feel (no offence). Time to try as hard & as smart as the women around you, some men. 😂.

It takes at least 3-4 generations to bring about actual, tangible change.

STORY TIME

On my way to Granville station in Vancouver on Skytrain, I overheard a conversation of two boys in their early 20's talk about the women they were romantically interested in.

"She just kept confiding in me how this guy broke her heart. And then she proceeded to tell me that all preppy guys are assholes," uttered the brown hair one.

"Shouldn't someone tell her that any guy, regardless of physical appearance has the ability to be an asshole?" snickered the other.

Now I didn't get to hear the full scope of the conversation but I seemed like both of them suffered from being in the friendzone, but somehow thought that the women they are interested in, can tell that they liked her. But didn't have the guts to ask her out directly?

This is one of the reasons why so many good women get their hearts broken first - good men don't pursue and bad men fish out of a motherflipping pond of wherever the f he can fish, and this particular type of bad men doesn't care about the consequences of his bad actions either.

Damn why does life have to make all of us learn the hard way? 😂

The major take away for good men in my life, is to pursue whatever job, or whichever girl you had your eyes on for awhile, because guess what? Women SUCK at judging characters of a man. LMAO.

Your future girl might be on some bad guy's bed right now, thinking she landed a high quality man, and that would have totally been prevented, had you pursued her first. 😂

You really do, miss 100% of the shot you don't take.

Have some badass, f** boi, 12 inch cck energy, and take the shot. You won't regret it. Trust me.

It's Still a Man's Job to Pursue

That has never been more true - some young men I meet who were coddled by parents growing up, can't stand it when their significant other can't muster up the same type of the wrong expression of love in his newly started family.

"She just kept confiding in me how this guy broke her heart. And then she proceeded to tell me that all preppy guys are assholes," uttered the brown hair one.

Now I didn't get to hear the full scope of the conversation but I seemed like both of them suffered from being in the friendzone, but somehow thought that the women they are interested in, can tell that they liked her. But didn't have the guts to ask her out directly?