Luck and love don't find everyone. You need to get out there to meet new people and gauge who is compatible and who isn't and it's a game of probability. Meet at least 125 new people a year to decide.
The way you were raised, and how you interact with your siblings actually determine the dynamics of your future love life. I don't know how many times I've seen kids with unfortunate family situations and these kids don't know how to express love the right way (this one is particularly dangerous).
Romantic love is very much like the job market where two candidates have to find each other valuable. It's the same way with friendships. None of the love you receive from anyone, is free so cherish people who help you. They are not obligated to help you and yet they do.
Not even your parents are obligated to help you. Lose the entitlement.
People who lack follow through on some areas of life, will lack follow through in other areas of life. The laziness seeps through other areas.
According to some Jewish ancient law, the bestest things in love are free, eg. hug from your parents. This has never been more true.
9/10 the only reason why you like a person romantically a lot or really enjoy being with a friend are because he or she adds MORE value to the relationship THAN YOU DO. Cherish them or BE GONE! **
According to Hinduism, we live in an age of absolute moral decay where people will betray one another for better jobs, better romantic prospects, you name it. As soon as someone you like betrays you, don't be surprised. They are a product of the environment. Make sure you stay away from these people.
No one can you feel inferior, without your consent. You feel inferior because you are inferior. Accept the truth and try to level up.
Competent, high-valued people can ditch weaker people any time. They have the option. For some strange reason, the strong really can obliterate the weak without any consequences. The best thing anyone can do, is to try to become high-valued in all aspects of life.
*11. Good people have the liberty to be evil in front of bad people. Please remember this. Divine justice doesn't happen right away.*
Don't give up so easily. Please don't give up. I learned English via listening to cassette tapes in China when I was 8. By the time I was 11, I already understood 55% of the conversations spoken to me in East York, Ontario, in elementary school. Many people I've come across in Istanbul and Athens, taxi-drivers, learned English in 10 years. You have 50 years to live. Don't give up.
There will be bad people who are very good at their jobs, increasing the bottom line of any company by a significant amount, and abusing their power. There really is nothing we can do about that, but what we can do is warn others.