See where they are willing to sink morally, at their lowest point is the right standard to gauge whether or not someone is a good person.

At Marta's lowest, she slept and cried herself to sleep, thinking about the person who wounded her. She is a good person.

At Samuel's lowest, he cheated on his girl friend. And then proceeded to blame her for coercing him to be in an exclusive romantic relationship with her. (These people used to be a part of my life; I can't even begin to think how bad I was at decipher who is a good person and who isn't).

Now some people actually murder others, out of rage at their lowest. Let's not go there.

VC, I know you are reading my blog posts. You are not a bad person. Trust me. You were simply misled. It's tough to be a good person in front of your uncaring ex. We don't need to be good in front of bad people.

Good people have the liberty to turn on bad people, any time. They have the right moral ground to do so. Besides, worse people stand on moral high grounds and point fingers all the time - why can't good people just turn on bad people already?

In the words of Joe Rogan in a podcast, "people want to be better people after knowing good people."

EH?! It's not our job as good people to teach you how to be good, my friend. I've never been happier, dumping some trash out of my life after I got majorly sick at the age of 24.

When a friend stands on a moral high ground, to judge you and perceives you as a bad person, it is over for you. (I am not joking - good people judge others all the time and compartmentalize who is worth keeping and who isn't).

I hope that my articles have made a lot of good people in my life, feel better about bad people ruining your days. We deserve better people.